With rain and 80s, humidity has been high in our hometown
although fall officially starts on Tuesday, Sept. 22, begging for some cooler
days-can frost be far away?
You recall that last week I began talking about late
Plain Talk pressman Johnny Ball and his son, Jody Ball, who now lives in
Atlanta and is getting support for a mission to Africa.
Johnny Ball died of cancer in June 1982. I recall that he
loved country music, especially George Jones, and over the years had
practically mastered every aspect of newspaper production from operating a
line-a-type machine to setting words in lead to running the press.
Jody says that Johnny Ball's mother, Geneva Ball, was the
only grandparent he ever knew. She was 92 years old when she passed away August
13, 2005. She had three other children, besides Johnny. Her youngest daughter
is Denise, married to Ronnie Depew. They have a son named Jarrett. Geneva's
daughter, Janice, married Jimmy Fred Ramsey, and they have four children: Craig,
Mark, Michelle, and Jennifer, all of whom have children of their own. Jody's
Uncle Dewey (Dude) Ball, who was named after his father, married Emily
Williams.
I recall Jody's mother, who was Doris Stykes, and called
her on Friday. You may recall her from the 20 years she worked with Doctors
Nathan Ford and Bill Henry and retired in the early 1990s. Doris was working at
American Enka, when she met Johnny Ball and they married in 1958. Jody was
their first child and four years later Andrea came along. In the early 1960s
Johnny joined the Plain Talk. In the Morristown Stykes family there were 8
brothers and sisters, but one sibling died as an infant. She had four brothers,
but three of them have passed away in the last several years. Her surviving
brother, Keith, lives not too far from Jody in Kennesaw, Georgia, with his
wife, Charlotte. They have three grown daughters with families of their own.
Two of them live nearby, while the oldest lives in Athens, Georgia. Deceased
are brothers Wayne, who lived in New York, and John, who moved to Newport from
Conyers, Georgia, not long before he died. He had a son and a daughter. Jody
said that Edwin, who was the baby, lived in Warner Robbins. He divorced after a
brief marriage many years ago and was the father of Katie Stykes. Living in
Newport is Doris Ball's sister, Alyce Moore. She is married to Tunney Moore.
They have three children. Their daughter Mitzi and her late husband James
Munsey were missionaries for twenty years in the Rio Grande Valley of South
Texas. You may recall that Mitzi and her children returned to Newport, when
James passed away quite suddenly from a brain tumor in 2001. Mitzi has since
remarried to Gary Satterfield. Her son, Matthew, now lives in Nashville where
he plays mandolin and sings in a bluegrass band. I know Shannon Moore best. He
is a financial specialist at National Bank of Tenn. and unfortunately suffered
from the flu last week. Mitzi's daughters, Laura and Rachel, live in Newport
with their mother and stepfather. Sisters Mary Carson and Margie Helton both
live in Morristown and are widowed. Sister Jane Smith resides in Cleveland,
Tenn. with her husband Wayne.
In addition to this update on the family, Jody told me
about some of the volunteer work he's been doing for almost two years. Jody
says, "In Kenya, God has called me to preach my testimony and spread God's
word of love, respect and service. My testimony is one of survival from a
laundry list of diseases, disorders, and abuse. It was God's love and God's
plan that kept me alive through numerous brushes with death since the year
2000. New Years 2008 I decided drinking myself to death wasn't working out real
well and that I might give sobriety a try. I understood AA to be faith based
and I was afraid that wouldn't work for me so I chose instead to begin a
gratitude journal. Something I had heard Oprah Winfrey talk about. I have to
keep reminding myself that it is not all on me" -this ongoing struggle.
"My gratitude journal started off as a way to remind me at the end of the
day just what all I had to be thankful for that day. It was most instrumental
in the first 6-8 months or so. The first 2-3 months entries always began with
'I'm glad I didn't drink today.' Eventually the first entries began to read 'I
thank God for giving me the strength not to drink today.' It was probably 4 or
5 years ago that I heard Oprah talk about gratitude journals on her show. I
rarely watch Oprah, but the idea of the gratitude journal struck me as such a
good idea I guess I never forgot about it. Later it did become a place to write
my thoughts of the day, too, and I would often work out any issues I might be
mulling over. I enjoy the process. I no longer write in my journal every night,
but it's always near by when I need to work something out, or just be reminded
how blessed I am."
Jody said he would also try volunteering to give him
something to do as well as a reason to remain sober. "I would later come
to realize that my gratitude journal was my form of prayer, and that
volunteering at the homeless shelter, senior citizens center, botanical
gardens, theater, or camp was my ministry. Service to my community was service
to God. It was my way of praising and honoring His word." In April 2008,
Jody began searching for a church. On May 18, 2008, he celebrated his 45th
birthday and the 25th anniversary moving to Atlanta. Jody recalled, "That
morning I walked into the Fellowship Hall of Ormewood Park Presbyterian Church
and I found my home. My brothers and sisters in Christ greeted me with open
arms, and I thank God for blessing me with such a loving and supportive
family."
Jody has just several weeks to raise funds for the
African mission trip. "My goal dropped to about $3,500 thanks to my
contact in Kenya. I will now be staying at a guesthouse on the top floor of
Rachel's Home for Girls where I will be volunteering most weekdays. The fee for
this is only 5,000 Kenya Shillings which is about $65."
He leaves
October 11, and will be there for 3 months, spreading God's word through his
testimony of hope and survival, and volunteering at local orphanages, schools
and hospices. His church is sponsoring the mission, but he originally had to
raise $5,000, and has made a big dent in this. I told him and his mother that
the Plain Talk would get the word out about the mission and need for the
support of his hometown. You may contact Jody Ball at 404-935-8050, 1227
Lyndale Drive, Atlanta, GA 30316.
In plain talk, everyone has a mission in life,
accomplishing it is quite a different thing.